Wherever you are is called Here, and you must treat it as a powerful stranger.
The real gift here is Wagoner's refusal to let us treat the present moment as a mere waiting room. Most advice tells us to "be here now," as if presence were a moral obligation; Wagoner instead asks us to be *curious* about where we are, to approach it with the wariness and attention we'd give a stranger who might teach us something. When you sit in your mother's kitchen for what might be the last time, or find yourself in a job you never planned to stay in, this reframing changes everything—suddenly you're not just enduring a temporary arrangement, but studying it, learning from it. The word "powerful" is what does the work: it acknowledges that every location has shaped and will shape us, whether we're paying attention or not.
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