There are years that ask questions and years that answer.
Hurston captures something most of us feel but rarely articulate: that personal time moves in seasons of *uncertainty* and *clarity*, not smoothly or predictably. The genius lies in suggesting we needn't frantically pursue answers during questioning years—some periods are simply meant for bewilderment, for sitting with what we don't know. A woman might spend her twenties asking "Who am I?" with genuine restlessness, then find her thirties arrive with unexpected answers she didn't have to manufacture, arriving instead through living. The quote grants us permission to stop forcing resolution and trust that disorientation itself serves a purpose.
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Marcus Aurelius“For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.”
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Viktor Frankl“We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.”
Seneca