Let me keep my mind on what matters, which is my work, which is mostly standing still and learning to be astonished.
Mary Oliver's sleight of hand here is to redefine ambition itself—not as motion toward distant goals, but as the patient cultivation of wonder. Most people hear "standing still" as passivity, missing that she means the disciplined attention required to actually *see* a red leaf or a heron's neck rather than glance past it. When you're stuck in traffic or sitting with a difficult relative, you're already doing her work; the question is whether you'll choose astonishment or resentment in those unchanged moments. That shift from productivity-chasing to perception-deepening is what transforms a mundane afternoon into a life well-spent.
“It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.”
Aristotle“Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.”
Lao Tzu“It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a great deal of it.”
Seneca“People think focus means saying yes to the thing you've got to focus on. But that's not what it mean...”
Steve Jobs