You start dying slowly if you do not change your life when you are not satisfied with your job.
The real sting here isn't about career dissatisfaction—it's about the slow erosion of agency itself. When we remain in work that diminishes us, we're not merely enduring an unpleasant situation; we're training ourselves to accept the smaller version of our own lives, bit by bit. A software engineer who despises her job doesn't just lose eight hours daily; she gradually loses faith that her preferences matter enough to act on, that her unhappiness constitutes sufficient reason for change. Medeiros warns us that this isn't dramatic failure—it's the quiet death of self-directed living, happening so gradually we barely notice ourselves shrinking.
“The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achie...”
Maya Angelou“The wound is the place where the light enters you.”
Rumi“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”
Lao Tzu