The wisdom here isn't that failure teaches us—that's worn smooth by repetition—but rather that the *falling itself* is necessary, not merely the lesson afterward. Goyer suggests we don't simply need to experience hardship and then recover; we need the specific humbling of losing our footing to develop the character required for resilience. Consider the parent who rescues their child from every minor tumble: the child never learns the particular courage that comes from having the wind knocked out of you and choosing to stand anyway. That gap between hitting the ground and getting up is where we discover we're stronger than we knew.