We never know which lives we influence, or when, or why.
The real sting here isn't the sentiment that we matter—that's comforting enough. King is pointing to something more unsettling: the complete *absence* of feedback. You might change someone's life by returning a library book, or lose someone's trust through a forgotten birthday, and never know it happened. A teacher once told me I'd make a good writer, something I dismissed for years; only much later did I realize I'd already become one, shaped by that casual remark I'd almost forgotten. We live in a strange economy where our currency—influence—keeps circulating invisibly, and we're forced to act as though our kindnesses matter even when we'll never receive a receipt.
“The only way to have a friend is to be one.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson“He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.”
Viktor Frankl“Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you ast...”
Rumi“Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life.”
Steve Jobs