Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.
— Buddha
What makes this observation quietly radical is that it overturns our instinctive fear of depletion—the worry that giving away our good fortune somehow diminishes us. Buddha isn't merely saying generosity feels nice; he's making a claim about the nature of happiness itself, suggesting it operates under different rules than material goods, that it actually *expands* through distribution rather than contracts. When you genuinely celebrate a friend's promotion or share your laugh at a ridiculous joke, you don't end up sadder; somehow the joy multiplies between you. The insight cuts against both selfishness and the martyrdom that pretends sacrifice is noble—instead suggesting that the stingy life and the generous life aren't a trade-off at all.
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