The soul which has no fixed purpose in life is lost; to be everywhere, is to be nowhere.
Montaigne isn't merely cautioning against scattered effort—he's suggesting that identity itself requires boundaries. A person without direction doesn't simply fail to achieve; they fail to *exist* as a coherent self, because we become ourselves through sustained commitment. Notice how the second part inverts our usual thinking: we assume ubiquity signals importance, yet he reveals it as a kind of disappearance. A consultant who takes every project, a friend who'll help with anything, a person constantly pivoting toward the next opportunity—they're all experiencing the peculiar loneliness of never being fully *anywhere*, which is why burnout often feels like an identity crisis rather than mere exhaustion.
“The only way to have a friend is to be one.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson“He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.”
Viktor Frankl“Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you ast...”
Rumi“Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life.”
Steve Jobs