The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short, but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.
The real sting here isn't about ambition—it's about the quiet tragedy of competence. We often praise people for "knowing their limits," but Michelangelo warns that this sensible-sounding advice can become a prison of our own making, where we mistake caution for wisdom. A talented young writer might decide she's "realistic" about her prospects and settle into ghostwriting corporate copy, only to find, fifteen years later, that she's become exactly as good as she aimed to be—competent, employable, and hollow. What makes this different from cheerleading optimism is the recognition that we don't fail our low aims; we *succeed* at them, which is somehow worse.
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.”
Maya Angelou“Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right.”
Henry Ford“Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it is having the courage to show up and be seen when we have...”
Brené Brown“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accom...”
Ralph Waldo Emerson