One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.
Arthur Ashe cuts through the motivational noise by refusing to separate confidence from its unglamorous source—he's not asking you to *feel* confident, but to *earn* it through the work nobody sees. Most advice treats self-doubt as a psychological problem to overcome, when Ashe suggests it's simply the honest response to being unprepared. A surgeon before performing a delicate operation, or a teacher before the first day of class, doesn't need a pep talk; they need their preparation to have been thorough enough that doubt becomes superfluous. The real gift here is permission to stop chasing confidence as some inner quality and to chase competence instead.
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.”
Maya Angelou“Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right.”
Henry Ford“Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it is having the courage to show up and be seen when we have...”
Brené Brown“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accom...”
Ralph Waldo Emerson