Be serious. By which I mean: be passionate, be wide-awake, be in earnest.
Sontag's redefinition of seriousness cuts against the grain of a common misunderstanding—that being serious means being solemn, rigid, perhaps even joyless. What she's really asking for is presence: the kind of alert engagement you see in someone truly absorbed in conversation, or in a parent's face when their child first speaks. The passionate person isn't necessarily the loudest; they're the one whose attention doesn't waver, whose stakes feel genuine because they haven't erected walls between themselves and the matter at hand. That's why a scientist can be as serious as a grieving widow, a child playing chess as serious as a surgeon—the seriousness lives in the quality of attention, not the subject matter.
“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.”
Charles R. Swindoll“You have power over your mind — not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.”
Marcus Aurelius“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”
James Clear“No man is free who is not master of himself.”
Epictetus