Adversity is the state in which man most easily becomes acquainted with himself.
Wooden isn't merely saying that hardship teaches us—he's suggesting that comfort is actually a kind of self-deception, a comfortable fog we live in. When everything goes smoothly, we never need to discover what we're truly made of, so we mistake our surface habits for our actual character. A person laid off from a long career, suddenly stripped of title and routine, often reports a startling clarity about what they actually value versus what they'd been defending out of mere momentum. That involuntary self-knowledge, however painful, is the one thing ease could never have given them.
“The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achie...”
Maya Angelou“The wound is the place where the light enters you.”
Rumi“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”
Lao Tzu