Above all, don't lie to yourself.
Dostoevsky isn't simply warning against dishonesty—he's identifying self-deception as the root sin from which all other moral failures branch. When you lie to others, at least you're still accountable to your own conscience; but when you convince yourself that a selfish choice was actually noble, or that you had no choice when you did, you've poisoned the very instrument meant to guide you. You see this in the person who tells themselves they're "just being realistic" when they've actually surrendered their ambitions, or who insists they "had to" hurt someone when they merely chose the easier path. Once you've locked yourself in that cell, no external correction can reach you—which is precisely what terrified Dostoevsky most.
“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.”
Charles R. Swindoll“You have power over your mind — not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.”
Marcus Aurelius“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”
James Clear“No man is free who is not master of himself.”
Epictetus